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AARP
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Institute for the Equality in Marriage
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American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy
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Legal Momentum Advancing Women's Rights
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Older Women's League (OWL)
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Parents without Partners
www.parentswithoutpartners.org


Stepfamily Association of America
www.stepfam.org

Alcoholics Anonymous World Services
www.alcoholics-anonymous.org

Cornell law school offers a huge database and search engine, as well as the complete text of various state court decisions
www.law.cornell.edu 

The Nolo Press website will answer questions about living together, separation, divorce, and child custody, as well as on many other topics.
www.nolo.com 

Yahoo law offers links to many state laws.
www.yahoo.com/law

American bar association has a section dedicated to family law.
www.abanet.org/family

Martindale-Hubbell Directory
www.martindale.com/xp/Martindale/home.xml
www.lawyers.com  

The best resource for evaluating lawyers in your region is the Martindale-Hubbell Directory, it is usually available at your local library.
 

American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers
150 North Michigan Avenue, Suite 2040
Chicago, IL 60601

Tel: (312) 263-6477

Fax: (312) 263-7682

www.aaml.org

The Center for Dispute Settlement
1666 Connecticut Avenue, NW Suite 500
Washington, D.C. 20009

Tel: (202) 265-9572

Fax: (202) 328-9162
 

Association for Conflict Resolution
1527 New Hampshire Ave., NW Third Floor
Washington, DC 20036

Tel: (202) 667-9700

Fax: (202) 265-1968

Email: info@acresolution.org

www.acresolution.org 
 

American Arbitration Association

www.adr.org

They will assist in locating an arbitrator in your area.

American Society of Appraisers (business appraisers)
555 Herndon Parkway, Suite 125
Herndon, VA 20170

Telephone: (800) 272-8258

Fax: (703) 742-8471

www.appraisers.org 
 

Appraisal Institute
875 North Michigan Avenue, Suite 2400
Chicago, IL 60611

Telephone: (312) 335-4100

Fax: (312) 335-4474

www.appraisalinstitute.com

Administration for Children and Families

U.S. Department of Health and Human Services Child Support Enforcement
370 L'Enfant Promenade
SW Washington, D.C. 20447

Telephone: (202) 401-9383

Fax: (202) 401-5559

www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse

If you're living with a partner (or planning to live with a partner) to whom you're not married, you may want to consider signing a cohabitation agreement. This is something that same-sex couples definitely should consider as well. A cohabitation agreement is a written contract that sets forth your mutual rights and obligations with respect to joint and separate property, as well as stating any other financial or general obligations or expectations you wish to agree upon in advance of (or even after) moving in together. 

You and your partner will need to hire separate lawyers to review and sign this agreement. 

This Cohabitation Agreement is provided by attorney Frederick Hertz, for a couple that is keeping most of their assets separate, and agreeing to not provide any post-dissolution support to one another (the unmarried equivalent to alimony). 

Frederick Hertz practices real estate and land use law in Oakland, California. His practice emphasizes the formation and dissolution of real property co-ownerships and property and financial agreements between unmarried couples (both same-sex and opposite-sex couples). He also serves as a mediator and arbitrator in disputes between unmarried partners, both gay and straight. Mr. Hertz is the author of Legal Affairs: Essential Advice for Same Sex Couples (Henry Holt & Co./Owl Books) and co-author of the Nolo Press' Legal Guide for Lesbian and Gay Couples and Living Together: A Legal Guide for Unmarried Couples.
 

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Roth IRAs for Kids

This article is for Sida, one of QVC's viewers in California who wanted to know about Roth IRAs for kids.

Starting in 1998, a new kind of IRA, called a Roth, came on the scene, and at the time my advice to everybody was: If you qualify, get one. It still is. The Roth is an especially wonderful way for those of you who have kids and who want to save for college to do so, but you can also save for a home of your own or for retirement down the road. Let me explain. 

A Roth is different from a traditional IRA. How? If you want a detailed explanation please see the ASK SUZE book on Planning for your Future, pages 22-35. But for those of you who I know won't go to the book to look it up, this is how they work. 

The money you contribute to a Roth (up to a maximum of $2,000 a year per person if you meet certain income qualifications) isn't tax deferred. Up front, your contributions are treated just like the money you are putting into any of your non-retirement investment accounts; in other words, you must pay income taxes on the money before investing it. (With a traditional IRA, the money you contribute isn't taxed until you withdraw it at retirement.) So what's the big advantage? There are lots of advantages to a Roth, but the biggest one is that you can withdraw both your money and earnings tax free. If you are 59.5 or older and those funds have been in the Roth for at least five years. With a regular IRA, you pay taxes on your earnings as well as contributions when you start taking your money out. 

Second, you don't have to wait until you're 59.5 to withdraw any of your original contributions to a Roth account; you can take out your own money any time you want, for any purpose, without paying taxes or a penalty, because it's already been taxed. It is only the earnings on that money that have to stay in the account for five years and until you are at least 59.5 years of age. 

Third, your money, both your contributions and your earnings, can be withdrawn without any penalty regardless of how old you are or how long those funds have been in there IF the money is used for certain specific purposes. These include paying for college or graduate school and using up to $10,000 to buy your first home. 

Even though the Roth is a great deal for anyone who qualifies as a way to save for retirement, the main reason for this article is for those of you who have kids or grandkids. If they are old enough to work, even just around the house or at your office, the Roth IRA is especially attractive, because kids' tax bracket is usually very low or nonexistent. The reason I said "if the kids are old enough to work" is that all money that is put into a ROTH IRA must come from kids' own earned income. It can't be money that is a gift or is earned from dividends or interest or from any other investment. If your child is old enough to earn some money by doing odd jobs, then that can go into this Roth. 

Let me show you why you are going to wish your parents could have helped you do this, and why you should help your kids or grandkids to do it. Let's say your child does some paid chores after school and that she earns $166 a month. If she starts working at age 8 and every month puts her $166 into a Roth IRA that invests in a good no load mutual fund with an average 11-percent rate of return, at the age of 17 she would have a total of about $30,000 in that Roth. (For more about no-load funds, see the ASK SUZE book on Mutual Funds and Annuities, page 39). Of that $30,000, $18,000 can be taken out take tax- and penalty-free for any purpose, because that's the amount she contributed over the years. The additional $12,000 is considered earnings; but if the child uses that money for education, she can also withdraw the $12,000 penalty-free, without waiting until she reached the mandated age of 59.5. She will have to pay taxes on that $12,000. But she could use just the $18,000, and leave the $12,000 in there to grow until retirement. 

In fact, by the time that child is 60, $12,000 at 11 percent a year will have grown into $1,000,000. Not so bad, if you ask me. And if she left all $30,000 in the account to grow and never added another penny, at age 60 she would have about $2.7 million dollars, and she could take it out totally tax free. How happy would any of us be to know that, at age 60, we'll have close to 3 million dollars, tax free, waiting for us? I thought so.  

In my opinion, this is something that you can't let your kids pass up. For that matter, if you qualify, you should also open up a Roth.  

Where can you open up a Roth IRA in your kids names? There aren't a lot of options, because some mutual fund companies and brokerage firms won't open an account for minors. But other fund and brokerage companies are willing to work around this by having a parent or guardian co-sign the paperwork. Here's a list of large fund companies that are willing to open IRAs for kids:  

* Baron, 800-992-2766

* Dodge & Cox, 800-621-3979

* Invesco, 800-525-8085

* Janus, 800-525-8983

* Neuberger & Berman, 800-877-9700

* PBHG, 800-433-0051

* T. Rowe Price (on a case-by-case basis), 800-638-5660)

* Strong, 800-368-1030

* Stein Roe, 800-338-2550 

* USAA, 800-531-8722

* Vanguard, 800-635-1511

Please note that mutual funds usually require a minimum investment: $250 at Strong, for example, and $1,000 at T. Rowe Price. But if you want to start smaller, brokerage firms Charles Schwab and TD Waterhouse will open IRAs for kids with no minimum investment and no annual maintenance fee. 

So the bottom line is this: The Roth IRA is a here for you to use. For now. Who knows if it will be around in the years to come, after a new President and Congress take office? That I am not sure about, but if you can, it's something that you and your kids should be taking advantage of. 

Now you know. 

For a great comparison of the advantages and restrictions of Roths and other kinds of IRAs, please go to Smart Money.

The following books are indispensable, whether you are living together, separating, or getting a divorce (available at www.nolo.com): 

Divorce & Money: How to Make the Best Financial Decisiom During Divorce, by attorneys Violet Woodhouse, CFP, and Victoria F. Collins, Ph.D., CFP, with M. C. Blakeman. Common-sense strategies for dividing debts, setting alimony, and much more. 

Living Together: A Legal Guide for Unmarried Couples, by attorneys Ralph Warner, Toni Ihara, and Frederick Hertz. Everything unmarried couples need to define and protect their relationship is covered in this superb resource. 

Legal Affairs: Essential Advice for Same-Sex Couples, by Frederick Hertz.  

A Legal Guide for Lesbian and Gay Couples, by attorneys Hayden Curry, Denis Clifford, Robin Leonard, and Fredrick Hertz. This excellent volume tells you all you need to make a living-together agreement, handle property, and much more. 

Nolos Pocket Guide to Family Law, by attorneys Robin Leonard and Stephen Elias will answer any question you might have regarding adoption, divorce, marriage, custody, and mediation.

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